
Observing Communication
This week I went to visit a colleague of mine and her 16 month old son, Mateo. During my visit, Emily (the mother) was playing with Mateo in the living room. The two were playing with a cube where you had to insert shapes. For every shape they inserted, she would say the name of the shape and hand it to Mateo. Mateo would smile, babble, then insert the shape where it belonged. They played this game for a few minutes until there was a stinky smell that needed some attention very quickly. As Emily changed Mateo’s diaper, she was talking to him and telling him what she was doing with him. When she would say “Now, UP!”, Mateo would push his pelvis up in order for her to take the diaper out from under him. He did not fuss or scream because he was being changed. Everything went smoothly. After the changing of the diaper, they went back to playing in the living room.
Since my colleague is also an early childhood educator, I feel her interactions with her baby were very efficient. Describing your actions with words helps the baby to understand and anticipate your next move (Kovach & Da Ros-Voseles, 2011). This is definitely what was happening during the changing of the diaper. While they were playing with the cube of shapes, since she said the name of the shape every time, he knew she would say something and it was almost like he was repeating what she was saying before placing the shape in the cube.
From their interactions, It looked like Mateo felt valued, seen, and a part of the process. Being talked to the whole time also gave him opportunities to interact and respond with babbles and even facial expressions and laughter. Through this exercise and the reading from this week, I realized that many times we do not look at babies as being able to respond and speak up for themselves. I hope to better that aspect of myself and direct myself directly to the child in order to give him/her importance and acknowledgement.
Reference
Kovach, B., & Da Ros-Voseles, D. (2011). Communicating with babies. YC: Young Children, 66(2), 48-50.